Do you know what your perfect marriage looks like? Do you know exactly what you want? If you don’t know what you want how are you ever going to get it? Before I started visualizing, I had a vague idea. I mean I just wanted to be happy that’s it – just make me happy. I didn’t really know specifics or what would make me happy. After reading a book on visualization it made sense to me, so I decided to give it a try.
After really thinking about it, I got out my journal and wrote out what happiness meant for me. How I wanted my husband to be, how I wanted to feel, how I wanted to behave,etc. I got very specific. I wrote out my vision long before I was actually happy. In fact I wrote it out when we were having some serious marital problems.
Knowing what you want and releasing it to the universe changes things. It puts out a clear intention and things move to make your intention a reality. It didn’t happen overnight, I didn’t wake up the next morning and boom my life had changed, in fact I didn’t even realize my life was changing. I read what I had written about a year after I wrote it and I couldn’t believe that 95% of it had come true. Since then I have written out a new vision for my life and this time I’m reading it daily and adding emotion to it, feeling what it will feel like when it’s all true. Things are already starting to move in the right direction. It’s amazing what happens when we have clear dreams and can visualize them. So why not take advantage and use it to improve your marriage? It worked for me. I would love to hear your stories about how visualization has worked for you or just keep me updated on your progress. Please comment and let me know.